I started coaching my daughter’s soccer team with big expectations. I thought we were going to dominate.

We did not.

This video is about what happened when I realized I wasn’t the main character in the story — and how embracing a supporting role changed the experience for everyone involved (even if it didn’t help our win-loss record).

It’s a funny, honest reflection on leadership, expectations, and what really matters when you’re responsible for people — especially little ones. We didn’t win many games, but we had fun and made memories, and that turned out to be the real victory.